Love Story (Oops)

I never being a good story teller but i always have keen intrest in Love Stories. I am Dheeraj Raghav working as a UI/UX expert in one of the top IT company in India.

The story which i want to share today with you all is a story of a boy name "Raghu" and his up and downs in life. Raghu is an average looking guy (in my language a below average looking) belongs to a middle class family in delhi . He is 5'7" dark complexion pretty thin with positive attitude and good sense of humour.

This story start when Raghu completed his school and joined college. He never being a studios type of a guy but he has a sharp mind his friends studied for days but he study only for couple of hours and he get passed. He always wanted to do something interesting in life. One day he diced that it would be good if somehow he can earn his pocket money by working somewhere part time(and thats how his life change).

He went for an interview in a Call Center in noida, that was the first tine he was about to appear for an interview where he has no clue what's going to happen next. He enters the office he saw people sitting and waiting for their interviews, after 2 hours of wait finally entered in the interviewers room. Although Raghu was a confident guy but on the first interview of his life he was too much tensed."Tell Me About Yourself " interviewer asked, he replied Sir I am Raghu........ and i am studying in college.... Raghu wasn't confident. Interview wasn't good with for Raghu but he was shocked when the final result come... "He Was Selected" only god knows how. Now he used to go to college in the morning and had to work at night in a Call Center.

First Day....

I entered the office with full formal clothes as per the Englishman (Formal Trousers, Full Sleeve Shirt with Formal Shoes with lasses) but that was a big blunder everyone was in Jeans, T-shirt, It was like a night college. Guys and Girls roaming together smoking cigarettes together and chatting. I was happy to see this type of environment but I wasn't expecting all this. 

I entered in the training room and took a last seat and sit quietly. I have no idea what's gona happen next, suddenly something happend which changed my life forever and I wish "Kash Yeh Hua Hi Na Hota". 

A girl entered the training room, she was wearing a Blue Color Suit, she was around 5'3 fair and she has the looks to die for(Trust Me On This). Every guy in the room was looking at her but Raghu wasn't doing the same. He was looking down don't know for what reason but he was. 

"I am your trainer my name is Neha. I was shocked she dont look like a trainer she was d same age as i was may be i am one year younger to her but still she was like one of us, but anyways the fact was she is my trainer and i am somehow happy that she is my trainer because i know that I don't have the guts to talk to her but now she is my trainer so she will talk to me. 

Introduction Round Began.....

I quickly counted the seats my number was 15th, I started preparing my self as I was thinking first impression is the last impression(How Dumb). Finally my number came and what she said i wasn't expecting this " Why Are You So Nervous" how she could knows this. Maybe because i was sweating and instead of looking at her i was looking outside the window. "No I Am Not Mam" i replied... she smiled and said "I am not mam call me neha" and she starts walkin towards me. I quickly want to end the introduction. "I am Raghu I Am From Delhi" I quickly said this and want to sit down very quickly, Everyone laughed at me I was embarrassed. Neha smiled at me and said will have your introduction tomorrow you have a night so prepare yourself and will hear from you tomorrow. 

How I Started Blogging.

Everyone knows I am a creative guy (as I am working as an creative designer). I am not found of writing or reading or I should say I was not found of writing or reading, but one day I come across of a group of content writers or I should say the best content writers. In the beginning it took me quite a time to adjust myself (as I am not into writing at all) but somehow I manage to find a place for myself in that group. When I started working with them I came to know how talented and hardworking they are. They usually spend too much of time searching new things, new words, new topics etc etc on which they can express themselves.

One day my manager came to me and said “Raghav I want you to write a Blog” . I have no clue what should I write and how to write, but I feel my manager has some faith in me and she pushed me that I should write. I had no topic, no words and no knowledge of writing(even today itself I don’t have these quality) anyways I was confused...... What would be the topic on which I can write and what the meaning of blogging. Is this a website? Than suddenly the best advice came to me from one of experienced guy (and trust me I still follow the advice). He said treat your blog as a diary write whatever you feel like don’t think about grammatical errors(although he corrected my silly mistakes). I feel out of place as everyone around me was quite good at their work and I was a fresher (In Designing) and I got a work of writing blogs. Gosh everyone can understand what I felt at that time, but I was quite excited as well to know that people around me are encouraging me to write.

After thinking to much I picked a topic and what else I can pick apart from my own “Delhi” the topic which I choose was “Colors of Delhi”. It was a greet pick at that point of a time as Delhi is only thing about which I can write. I write 2 Paragraphs and the 3rd paragraph was written by a sweet friend of mine (and her name is secret here). So after thinking to much and a push by my manager I write something for the first time but suddenly I realize I developed a new hobby for me which is writing, but I don’t like writing professionally as I am not writer or a poet, I am a free bird who likes to write anything, about anyone straight from the core of my heart.

So this is how I started writing and my passion for writing is still on as I am regularly updating my blog. Hope I would write more about my self, my friends, my problems, my life and many more.... and I hope someone would be reading all this and thinking that this guy is still the same....

Friends I Cant Wait to Meet

Yesterday I was in a mood to write and I was thinking about the one topic on which I can express my self. So I have decided to take help from one of my old friend and his name is google and his address is www.google.com. I typed my question and he gave me an ans in a form of list containing 100 topics on which I can write. I don’t want to share the list with everyone because you all will guess what would be my next post as I want to make it a surprise.

Today my topic is “Friends I Cant Wait to Meet”. (Hope they want to meet me as well.)

Mini disclaimer: Apologies to the friends mentioned in the post, don't sue me.


We all have friends and the types of friends you can/will have, vary greatly, from good friends, best friends, friends from work, friends from school, long distance friends, family friends, boyfriends, girlfriends, holiday-made friends and your regular run-of-the-mill “hi and bye” friend.


Some of my friends are fun, others cool and chic, one or two may be eccentric, some are great listeners and some are just plain nice. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t have any issue with my current batch of friends.

I have a nice mix of friends already but wait till you hear about who I’d like to make friends with in the future!

The amazing cook that insists on cooking for me the most amazing dishes at any given moment.

The funny guy who makes me wet my pants…literally.

The cool guy who can actually play the guitar, piano and saxophone but invites you to gigs in run down places.


So thats the small list of requirement i had for my future friends and I know its all vane because you cant find the friends according you your requirement. Except the friends the way they are don't change and don't even bother changing yourself just love the feeling of being friends and have fun.

My First Rally

I know its bit late for me to post this but since I was a part of rally against corruption so I want to share my experiances with everyone.

Sunday I went to India Gate to be a part of the rally against Corruption from India gate to Ramlila Maidan , it was my first time that I ever being a part of rally. I was quite excited to be a part of it.

In the morning, I along with my friend decided to go Ramlila maidan which we later changed  after knowing about the rally at India gate at 5 Pm. We arrived the venue half hour early though rally started a bit late i.e 5:30 PM.

The scene was amazing never seen such a huge gathering at such a short notice wherever we one see find people with tri-color flag and banners with lots of slogans and remarks Like " Sonia Gandhi get well Soon , Rahul gandhi Yuvaoon ke neta kha gaye eid ke Moon " , "Hu ha Hu ha ..K.S Chuha ..." , there were lots of other messages too. Me and my friends were holding a Banner written "Vande Matram " on it .this we borrowed it from other in the rally ..it was sudden didn't  an later waved the Flag.
Its a great feeling  ..that can only be felt and the energy it encompassed and spread is amazing.
When we reached Ramila maidan it was almost 8:15 PM  and the entry as long it can gets a long queue.
Finally entered the Ground and found major part of it was muddy. finally reached near near Anna where he was addressing us , that we will not give up till last breath, its our pledge and we will do it for our Nation.

I had been supporting  this movement from the very beginning  i.e 5th April 2011. Many people I found and heard of opposing it and saying such agitations are not of any significance means , that they have given-up  hope and also the basic fundamental rights to express and peacefully protest the Gandhian way in democracy.
Its been 42 years since this law was suggested but it never got through , as some corrupt MPs ( eg: Lalu yadav , Amar singh) don't want it to pass and so it has been pending from so long.
If we don't realise its critical importance to the Nation then we doing one of the Most Dangerous mistake of our generation which the next gen will definetly Question us about.
Its  suprising to hear that activitist , author Arudhaty roy is not in favor of Anna and the lokpal bill. I don't understand what she is looking upto then ..how the voices will be heard.
A 74 year old a true Gandhian  has got the guts to challenge the govt and it was he who put and made the govt to make so many silly mistakes and now whole country is connecting themselves to him one on one..in sync.
Corruption is like a dirty cloth , which if washed on time will be easy and look good then when its used and used  and never washed and when washed never give any impression it was ever washed.
Our state is also same.
As said  great are not those who blame others and make their ways to top but those who accept it and take failure as a lesson of life and take it as a stepping stone for further progress.

Is the writer in me is Dead?

Its being a long time since I have written something here..... Now I am back...... So lets start writing about something... Let me pick a topic first what say love no no no.... what say office no no no..... about me a big no no... everybody knows me what should I write? Hmmmmmm think... think.... think....



Today is 5th September 2011 and everybody knows it. Wrong start... Let me think again.... Today I am very Happy.... AM I ?...... I don't know why its being very difficult for me to write something, even I am unable to write something about my self. Is the writer inside me dead? Oh gosh that too bad.... anybody please suggest me something because I want him back....

New Job

Today i have started a new chapter of my life, yes you guessed it right i joined a new office. So bye bye to Indiamart finally and now i am a free bird. I miss Indiamart alot but it gives me a kind of relief which i was looking for from a quit a time. So no more manager no more faltu batein. Me and my work only. I would never do the same mistake what i have done in Indiamart and guys you know what i am talking about.

I hope i will find mental peace here working with new inviroment........ and guys you wont believe phone is not allowed here....... yes i dont know wat and how m going to survive in this but i will try....

Journey

Life is a journey, which starts when you born at it ends when you die. You face a different type of situation in this journey, some of them were good some of them was worst and maximum time it goes fine. We all think lying in our bed that tomorrow i will change everything and look life with a positive attitude but it never happens, its only in the dreams. When we wake up in the morning we goes with the flow and again in the night we make falls promise to our self that we would change this tomorrow.

Life always give us a chance to make the most of it and no doubt a number of people makes the most of it. But some remains the way they were before and kept on making comment that life never give them a chance. According to me the situation you were facing it might be bad or worst but without making efforts you cant change anything, so you should atleast try once to make the things go according to you.

And now in the end the favorite topic of mine, "Love", see the most people usually think they should hide their love or i should call it affairs, but i think love is meant to be told. It hardly matters to others. Being a boy i know a number of boys usually hide their affairs because they think if all girl would come to know that he is having a girlfriend so they wont give him a chance but that's not right. According to me if a girl like you she will not think that you are having a girlfriend or not and then you have to decide what you want. 

I know i might be wrong but i write what i feel, see life is full of surprises and it not necessary that all surprises would be good so keep on accepting the surprises with a smile on your face because you don't know what is coming to you way.....